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Making Your New Year’s Resolutions Actually Happen

So, we are coming to the end of February …. how are your New Year’s Resolutions coming along?  Are you making daily progress, or are you like the majority of folks that commit to a few important goals on January 1st and abandon them out of frustration by the end of the month?

Well, if you’re having trouble sticking to your commitments, I have a simple suggestion that may help you get back on track.

This simple little shift made all the difference for me.  Instead of resolving to not do this or that, which is how many people frame their New Year’s Resolutions, commit instead to a new habit that will replace the old behavior.  Or, put something in your way to make sure you follow through on a new behavior you’ve committed to.

For instance:

- Instead of quitting smoking and wandering the halls of your home or workplace trying not to think about cigarettes, replace the smoking habit with a healthy one like walking, running or biking.  This will improve your health and help get your mind off the old negative habit.

- Instead of simply planning on running three times per week for the New Year, be sure and put your running shoes in front of your door so there is no way to miss them or ‘forget’ to run!

- If managing your time better is one of your New Year’s Resolutions, be sure to write out your 5-6 most important tasks for the day the night before and place the list with your keys or wallet/purse.  This way you’ll be ready to go the next morning and know exactly what you’ll be doing to make it a productive day. (for more tips on this subject be sure to read my time management post)

By following these simple tips, you’ll be well on your way to getting on track and making your New Year’s Resolutions a reality.

All the best,
- Scott

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Self Improvement Plan – Week 2

In keeping with the schedule I laid out in my last post, we will now move on to week two of our 13-week self improvement plan.

But first, how did week one go for you? I did fairly well, although I was on vacation with the family so I must admit to indulging once or twice. :-)

So moving on, our focus in Week 2 is:  Silence

Ben Franklin defined silence as, “Speak not but what may benefit others or yourself and avoid trifling conversation.”

This is such an important concept.  I am a firm believer in constant positive reinforcement through the words we say to ourselves.  We have TOTAL control over this, and our “self-talk” has the ability to empower and invigorate us.  Unfortunately, it also has the power to tear us down from within and destroy our enjoyment of life and our ability to reach our full potential.

Words are extremely powerful — make a conscious effort to choose them wisely!

And just as words have the ability to uplift our destroy our own lives, they also have the ability to do the same to others.  Think about it – how many people do you know that are living lives of internal and external turmoil because of the negative words spoken to them throughout their lives?  Worse yet, these negative comments in many cases were uttered years ago, but still have power over the recipient today … heart breaking.

So be a blessing to others, and only speak words of love and encouragement … you’ll make the world a better place and you’ll feel better by doing so.

And avoid “trifling conversation” and gossip.  It is pointless and ultimately tears you down as well – in mind and in stature.

Onward we go – have a great week!
- Scott

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Self Improvement Plan – Week 1

Inspired by my study of Benjamin Franklin and his self styled 13-week self improvement plan, I’ve decided to embark on my own based on the 13 virtues he outlined.

Therefore, every Monday for the next 13 weeks I will be referencing the particular virtue to concentrate on for that week.  If you’d like to join me, please feel free to subscribe to the blog feed or subscribe via email and we can go through the process together.

So then, without further ado let’s not mess around let’s get right to it!

Self improvement plan – Week 1 Virtue:  Temperance

Franklin refers to temperance as “Eat not to dullness and drink not to elevation”.

This makes total sense to me as a self improvement virtue.  I know that when I give in to the occasional temptation to overeat, I am miserable about 15-30 minutes later and I do not feel like doing much of anything.  Food is supposed to energize us .. not the opposite!

So by consciously avoiding eating to the point of “dullness”, we can tap in to the energy our food is designed to give us and go about our day being fully productive and industrious.  As a side benefit, we may even lose a few pounds!

With regards to the second part of Franklin’s definition of temperance, I do not drink at all myself.  Franklin was – as am I  - very aware of the crippling effect that alcohol can have on a person’s productivity and motivation.  So, if you decide to drink please limit your intake to one or two drinks maximum to avoid getting to the point of elevation.  This will help you keep your edge.

So then, temperance is our battle cry for the coming week.  Good luck, and feel free to join the discussion via your comments!

Best to you,
- Scott

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